Week #11: It's An All-About-My-Husband Sex Palooza

It's An All-About-My-Husband Valentine’s Month!
In honor of Valentine’s Day I decided to treat my sweetheart (that would be my husband) to three weeks of fun.

It’s an all-about-him sex palooza.

As such, I decided to get a male perspective on what men would like. So I naturally called on my friend and fellow Sexologist, Dr. Brian Parker, owner of Forever Pleasure.com an on-line high end toy company.

Dr. Brian is a tireless advocate who educates people on healthy sex toys. He has a ton of F-R-E-E information on his website to help you make the best educated purchases.

Here Are Dr. Brian’s Three Picks For Us To Try
(1) Duet Cock Ring
(2) Valentine’s Surprise for my hubby--which I’ll reveal next week because my husband reads this blog and I don’t want to giveaway his "big surprise!" All I can say to my hubby is, “Oh la la…just you wait!”
(3) Embrace board game

Because it was first on the list, I decided to try the Duet Cock Ring. Just an FYI, I find the term “cock ring” bugs me—it almost put me off the idea entirely. But, alas, cock ring is a perfect descriptor of what the device is.

What Is A Cock Ring?
A cock ring is placed around the base of a man's penis, primarily to slow the flow of blood from the erect penile tissue, thus maintaining erection for a longer period of time. I wanted to put a photo here of an erect penis with a cock ring at it’s base to show how it works--but I’m certain Google and all social media would shut me down for the "inappropriate" sex education show and tell…

Men love anything that makes his penis look good. And a cock ring helps his penis looks at its best.

Not only that, a cock ring decreases male sensitivity so he is able to last a little longer.

When you have a vibrating cock ring, like the Duet, his penis becomes like a human vibrator which ups the fun for both parties.

The Duet Cock Rick Has The Couple’s Pleasure In Mind (So says the product description...)
Made of incredibly stretchy elastomer with vibrating bullets on the top and bottom for his and her fun. The top vibe stimulates the penis and clitoris, while the bottom vibe stimulates his balls and her perineum. This smart toy can be used with constant vibration or on a touch-sensitive setting where it only vibrates when pressing against the clitoris.

How Was The Duet?
I liked how the Duet stimulated my clit, but surprisingly, more so I really enjoyed the vibrations on my perineum (the space between my vagina and anus). It was almost like I bumped into a long lost friend and thought, “Hey, I forgot you existed perineum and you feel really nice. We really must include you a lot more often during sex.”

Husband’s Rating On The Duet
He gave it a 7.5/ 10. He really like that it made me happy. He also liked how it’s engineered with an on/off option or a touch-sensitive option. However, the elastomer was a bit too stretchy for him—he prefers a snugger fitting cock ring.

Make sure to do something special for your Valentine.

About The Author

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Trina Read
Sexologist, Dr. Trina Read is the founder of The Business Of Sex Speaker Agency. She is a leading relationship and sexual health expert and educator; and is a best selling author, media expert, was a CBC radio Relationship columnist, syndicated blogger, international award winning speaker, newspaper & magazine columnist, and spokeswoman. Follow her on Twitter and Facebook.
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