Question Last January, my wife and I were at a nice restaurant having dinner, (date night). I was, as usual, making my latest pitch for something new we should be trying to spice up our sex lives. Not only did she say no, but she told me that our sex life was fine, and that …
Yearly Archive
for: ‘2006’
Marital Sexual Satisfaction–Part #3 (Hitched on-line magazine)
Question Why, mainly in males, is the duration of marriage a factor with sexual inactivity? Dr. Trina’s Response: (1) Sex for men is one of the few ways they can show emotion. It is their emotional connection to their partner-most people believe it is the woman. When the sex stops, so does his main outlet …
Three One-Minutes to Better Sex
Here are some easy to implement, long term habits a busy mom can do to bring the spark back to their relationship: Three one-minutes a day to create a sexy moment. (1) Make sure to touch your partner in a non-sexual way every day. The busier a woman gets the more likely she is to …
Marital Sexual Satisfaction–Part #2 (Hitched on-line magazine)
Question If a couple is having some kind of discourse within their relationship do to reasons other than intercourse, what are some ways a couple can find marital satisfaction outside of sex? Dr.Trina’s Response: Long term couples tend to lose: (1) Non-sexual touch which doesn’t include hugging, cuddling—it’s more the pragmatic hand-holding, bum squeezing, shoulder …
Marital Sexual Satisfaction–Part #1 (Hitched on-line magazine)
Question I’ve read some studies on sex and marital satisfaction and most point to a grey area of ambiguity mainly due to the fact that the relationship between sex and marital satisfaction is more complex than many think. Why do you think there are so many complexities in a study between sex and marital satisfaction? …
Vaginas–Part #8 (First for Women Feature Article)
Question: A quote from you: “Women in general have a pretty twisted sense of body image. Those insecurities are personified when it comes to their vaginas.” Please elaborate. Dr. Trina’s Response: I feel because too many women have a “doughnut hole sensibility” around their vagina, they never develop a “relationship” with it. Every day a …
Vaginas–Part #7 (First for Women Feature Article)
Question Even though you are now more comfortable and confident about your body than you were as a teenager, what kinds of body insecurities manage to creep out from time to time? (You mention hating to try on lingerie under the dressing room lights. What kind of flaws do you see?) Dr. Trina’s Response: I …
Vaginas–Part #6 (First for Women Feature Article)
Question: Also, we all have bad hair days. You mention “bad body days”. What’s a bad body day for you and would you say you ever have “bad vagina days”? Dr. Trina’s Response: I believe I answered this with question #3. Question You state that men in your past and present have a much more …
Vaginas–Part #5 (First for Women Feature Article)
Questions How did you learn how to gauge if your self-esteem is low, medium or high? Do you do anything special for yourself on a low self-esteem day? Dr. Trina’s Response: I believe every person has woken up and just wanted to pull the sheets back over their head—a pretty good indication of a low …
Vaginas–Part #4 (First for Women Feature Article)
Question Along the same lines, how do you “try to act like a confident person” in intimate situations that make you feel uncomfortable? How does this phrase also help you outside the bedroom? Dr. Trina’s Response: As stated in the previous question, I feel uncomfortable “putting on an act” and pretending to enjoy being touched …
