Question #1

I have a 5 inch penis when erected, it is about 2 inches thick too, is that a good size?

Dr. Trina’s Response:

Penis size matters for some women yet for most women it is not an issue. I use the metaphor that breast size matters for some men, but for most men it is not a deal breaker to whether a guy will have sex with a gal–yet many women obsess about their breast size just as many guys obsess about their penis size.

The upper two third of a woman’s vaginal canal has very few nerve endings, therefore if a penis is 10 inches of 4 inches, it doesn’t make too much difference in her perception of how it feels.

REALLY IMPORTANT INFORMATION: It is a truism to say, if you can whip a woman into a frenzy using tons of foreplay–i.e. kissing, full body stroking, excellent oral sex, g-spot stimulation with fingers, etc…she really won’t care what your penis size is.

Question #2

I masturbate like most guys, I get pleasure sometimes, but other times I don’t, how can I have pleasure all the time?

Dr. Trina’s Response:

Ejaculation does not equal to desire. Just because you can have an orgasm and ejaculating does not necessarily mean you had a desire for sex. And you cannot force the desire component to make your masturbation a super great experience every time.

Question #3

Whenever I am naked I eventually get aroused, this causes problems like showering with my teammates or at a swimming pool and i got a boner, is it normal?

Dr. Trina’s Response:

I don’t think it is abnormal. Sounds like you are a young guy and as with many young men a warm breeze can cause an erection. As you age, this to shall pass.

Question #4

I also kinda’ wanna’ jack off sometimes when me and my friends r watching porn related material, should I just whip it out and jack, or would it be weird?

Dr. Trina’s Response:

Great question. I really believe that people are much too uptight around there sexuality. Yet there needs to be some etiquette about respecting other people’s boundaries.

So if while you are watching porn with your buddies, you were to say, “hey guys, do you mind if I jack off?” And they grunt back, or whatever guys do in that circumstance to say okay. Then go ahead. If you were to get a few raised eyebrows and/ or funny looks, then your pals may think masturbating in front of them is not kosher.

If you’re not willing to ask for your friend’s “permission”, I would say you are over stepping their boundaries by masturbating in front of them.

And hey, you may start a trend with your buddies that gives everyone the chance to jack off while watching porn. You could become the trend setter.