Question:
Also, we all have bad hair days. You mention “bad body days”. What’s a bad body day for you and would you say you ever have “bad vagina days”?
Dr. Trina’s Response:
I believe I answered this with question #3.
Question
You state that men in your past and present have a much more forgiving view of your body [...]

Questions
How did you learn how to gauge if your self-esteem is low, medium or high? Do you do anything special for yourself on a low self-esteem day?
Dr. Trina’s Response:
I believe every person has woken up and just wanted to pull the sheets back over their head—a pretty good indication of a low self-esteem day.
Otherwise, an [...]

Question
Along the same lines, how do you “try to act like a confident person” in intimate situations that make you feel uncomfortable? How does this phrase also help you outside the bedroom?
Dr. Trina’s Response:
As stated in the previous question, I feel uncomfortable “putting on an act” and pretending to enjoy being touched with a BBI [...]

Question
In what kinds of situations do you practice your motto, “fake it until you make it”, and how does this phrase relate to feelings you may be having about your genitalia? Please provide an example of how reciting this phrase helps change your way of thinking.
Dr. Trina’s Response:
When I wake up feeling like a “wabba”—jiggly [...]