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for: ‘March, 2007’

Is the Fight Over Sex Really Worth It?

No doubt about it. Sex is a hot-button topic for many couples.  When I ask couples “Is all the fighting really worth it?”, they immediately answer with, “Of course not!” Yet these same people keep going round the same frustration circles. What started this musing? I recently visited my financial advisor to discuss year end taxes. …

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Being a Parent and Still Having Sex–Part #6 (ParentsConnect.com)

Question My husband says he doesn’t want to have any more kids, but refuses to have a vasectomy. I’ve told him it’s only fair since I had to go through childbirth. What can I do to convince him?  Dr. Trina’s Response: Hmmmm. Giving guilt (i.e. you suffered to have your children) that will inevitably lead …

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Being a Parent and Still Wanting Sex–Part #5 (ParentsConnect.com)

Question  I’ve been divorced a year, but have to admit there’s still a powerful sexual connection with my ex and sometimes I want to pick up the phone and suggest a casual hook-up. Is it O.K. to have sex with an ex? Dr. Trina’s Response First know you are not some freak’oid because you want to …

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Being a Parent and Still Wanting Sex–Part #4 (ParentsConnect.com)

Question  I have a huge crush on George Clooney and like to daydream about having sex with him even though I am very happily married. Is this normal? Dr. Trina’s Response:  George Clooney…yum. Good choice Fantasy is a healthy part of any relationship. It allows you to be, do, and have sexual encounters in your regular …

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