I have a huge crush on George Clooney and like to daydream about having sex with him even though I am very happily married. Is this normal?
Dr. Trina’s Response:
George Clooney…yum. Good choice
Fantasy is a healthy part of any relationship. It allows you to be, do, and have sexual encounters in your regular life that are not usually possible. As an added bonus, fantasy is free, won’t give STDs and makes you that much hotter in bed.
Yet it is understandable how fantasizing about a man who is not your husband can be disconcerting. In 1973, Nancy Friday came out My Secret Garden a book written by women about their sexual fantasies. It was shocking back then and it still is (sadly) shocking today that women can have such lust fueled ideas about sex.
Perhaps your next question is, are you being ‘unfaithful’ to your husband by thinking such thoughts. Absolutely not. I bet your husband has thought of some gal while doing the deed as well.
Side note: Talk to your husband and see if he likes fantasy as much as you. If yes, start telling each other your fantasies while in the sack. Sharing your fantasies with each other can make your encounters even more sizzling hot.