Monthly Archive
for: ‘November, 2008’

How to talk about a sexual dysfunction

What are some practical ways couples can deal with their struggles in the bedroom? It’s tremendously difficult for the average couple to talk about a sexual dysfunction—whether it is an erectile problem or an inability to orgasm. Your best first step is to educate yourself on what is going on with your body; then educate …

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Why It’s Important to Settle Sexual Problems

What happens if couples ignore erectile problems, a low or no sex drive, or difficulty reaching orgasm? Quite simply, it can devastate even the most solid of couples. When people lose touch with their sexuality and sensuality, the quintessential intimacy between a couple is lost. A marriage can function without sex but it cannot function …

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Do Couples Have Unrealistic Expectations About Sex?

Do couples have unrealistic expectation about sex — and how do we deal with those expectations? We live in a very sexualized society. In the last twenty five years we’ve come to value part of our self worth based on our sexuality and sexiness. With women’s emancipation the ideal that sex was her wifely duty …

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How long should good sex last?

How long does good sex really last? When a couple is first together, they have enough dopamine and the body’s own amphetamine-like hormones that they are sufficiently aroused in a nanosecond. So sex can last for three minutes and be mind blowing. Generally though, after two years, it takes a woman a minimum fifteen minutes …

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