Are open relationships on the rise and what cultural changes do you see in the relationship landscape in Canada and the US? As our society becomes more liberal and accepting, is it reasonable to expect a romantic partner to remain monogamous? Well, we know it can be done and it has been done, countless times. Simply stated, it IS humanly possible, but (as many of us know) it is not a piece of cake.
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Casual sex is now the norm
The average age of intercourse is 17 in Canada. The average age at marriage is 28 for females and 30 for men (in Canada). So there around 10 years of ‘single’ time for most young adults. Should you accept a life of celibacy other than your own self-pleasuring? Hell no.
Female friend porn
Here are my top feminist porn icons. While not everything feminist filmmakers create is for me, these hardworking women (and men) are trying to create a different type of product–a product that represents sexual pleasure and passion in all its diversity.
Dealing with relationship anger
Anger can be a deal breaker in relationships, for this we can all say for certain. The issue though isn’t about the unliked emotion, but instead what you do with it. Anger is a healthy emotion to have–-it’s what we do with it that get’s us in trouble.
Study shows men love romance more than sex
A recent study showed men may be just as hard-wired for romance as women. It has been ingrained in us since the moment we exited the womb, men look for sex and find love and women look for love and find sex. Like the story of every romantic comedy or romance novel ever written, women are the emotional romantic saps whereas men are the testosterone-filled sex fiends.
Women (and men) stop faking orgasm!
According to research, sometimes women just know they won’t orgasm so for them it’s better to fake one rather than prolong sex. How does bad sex + rewarding bad behaviour = a good sexy time?
Woman can’t have penetrative sex
I am 28 years old and have still not been able to have penetrative sex. I continue to have orgasms with my boyfriend but somehow when it comes time to penetrate my muscles and vagina just don’t let the penis inside. Would you be able to advise me of any workshops or doctors that I could refer to help me with this issue?
Toss the tee and throw on a pair of heels
Instead of throwing on his tee why don’t you change out of your work clothes into something else? Something you feel great in. It could just be a pair of skinny jeans and a fitted american apparel v-neck, it could be a little black dress that you can dress down by throwing your blonde lockes up into a messy bun, but I guarantee just by changing into something different, your mind will be refreshed.
Halloween a chance to try sexy role play
Women less likely to feel that their costumes hide their identity/think they can play different roles because of their costumes. Men are more likely to hide their identity in their costume.
Craving a massage with a ‘happy ending’
An article in the NYT was about a centre in San Francisco that, “provides near-exclusive emphasis on women’s pleasure”. Every morning at the “One Taste Urban Retreat Center” about a dozen women lie down half naked while clothed men manually engage them in a ritual called ‘Orgasmic Meditation’. It’s interesting to note that the men do not have orgasms and there is no eye contact during the mediation.
