It makes sense then that many new moms feel they have a low libido and search for a ‘magic pill’ to help get them feeling sexual and sexy. In fact, every year millions of women spend billions of dollars on spurious libido enhancement pills, creams and other unproven treatments.

To end the “All-about-my husband’s-Valentine-month-Sexpalooza”, I decided to give him a little porn treat. Pirates 2: Stagnetti’s Revenge, is a porn spoof of the movie Pirates of the Caribbean. It’s a four disk “collectors” set and has received a lot of positive hype.

Knowing he was in for a Valentine’s surprise my husband casually said, “Let me know if I should cancel a hockey game.” Cancel hockey??!?! Him playing hockey (four times a week) is sacrosanct. He must have been really, really excited about his Valentine’s Day surprise. His enthusiasm made me want to make it an even more special time.

Week #11 Six Month Sex Challenge: It’s an all about my husband Valentine’s month—so we’re trying guy sex stuff.
Lesson I learned from last week: Learning to love my body won’t be as simple as buying a new set of lingerie. But at least I’ve made a start.
All-about-him Valentine’s month
In honor of Valentine’s Day I decided [...]

Week #10—Six Month Sex Challenge: I thought buying a cute bra and panty set would help me feel sexy again. It did just the opposite.
Lesson I learned from last week: Using the We-Vibe vibrator wasn’t as uncomfortable as I thought it might be.
So for this week’s it’s-about-me-this-week challenge, I decided to clean my underwear draw, [...]

Week #9 of The Six Month Sex Challenge: The We-Vibe is a freakin’ marvelous sex toy!
Lesson I learned from last week: I’m really digging the weeks when sex is all about me and all my daydreaming becomes wonderful foreplay.
Struck with The Baby Blues
I suppose I’m lucky. I’ve dealt with mild depression for twenty years. Managed [...]

Week #7—Six Month Sex Challenge: The best foreplay EVER is day dreaming of a warm all-about-me massage.
Lesson I learned from last week: I will need to use plenty of silicone lube to make intercourse comfortable while I’m breastfeeding fulltime.
The Magnificent Jimmy Jane Candle
Warm massage oil being dribbled onto, and lovingly massaged into my tired naked [...]

The hosts of Breakfast TV Calgary and I discuss sex after baby, as well as my Six Month Sex Challenge. My newborn who is seven weeks old here–now 12 weeks old–makes several cameo appearances.

Week #7—Six Month Sex Challenge: Pink vs. Pink Water Lubricant. I need to use a silicone based lubricant, and lots of it, while I’m breast feeding.
Lesson I learned from last week: Trying to get sex back on track only highlights what wasn’t dealt with before the baby was born.

Breastfeeding Making Intercourse Uncomfortable
After my last blog [...]

Week #6 Six Month Sex Challenge—Is good intention enough to help a flagging sex life?
Lesson that I learned last week: Our sex life will never be the hot crazy sex it once was; and yet we now can create something deeper and richer to take us over time.
Does the New Year really bring with it [...]