Question Last January, my wife and I were at a nice restaurant having dinner, (date night). I was, as usual, making my latest pitch for something new we should be trying to spice up our sex lives. Not only did she say no, but she told me that our sex life was fine, and that …
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Marital Sexual Satisfaction–Part #3 (Hitched on-line magazine)
Question Why, mainly in males, is the duration of marriage a factor with sexual inactivity? Dr. Trina’s Response: (1) Sex for men is one of the few ways they can show emotion. It is their emotional connection to their partner-most people believe it is the woman. When the sex stops, so does his main outlet …
Three One-Minutes to Better Sex
Here are some easy to implement, long term habits a busy mom can do to bring the spark back to their relationship: Three one-minutes a day to create a sexy moment. (1) Make sure to touch your partner in a non-sexual way every day. The busier a woman gets the more likely she is to …
Marital Sexual Satisfaction–Part #2 (Hitched on-line magazine)
Question If a couple is having some kind of discourse within their relationship do to reasons other than intercourse, what are some ways a couple can find marital satisfaction outside of sex? Dr.Trina’s Response: Long term couples tend to lose: (1) Non-sexual touch which doesn’t include hugging, cuddling—it’s more the pragmatic hand-holding, bum squeezing, shoulder …
Marital Sexual Satisfaction–Part #1 (Hitched on-line magazine)
Question I’ve read some studies on sex and marital satisfaction and most point to a grey area of ambiguity mainly due to the fact that the relationship between sex and marital satisfaction is more complex than many think. Why do you think there are so many complexities in a study between sex and marital satisfaction? …
Woman Wants to Orgasm with New Boyfriend
Question: Hey Dr. Trina! Ok I have something for you to think about that is very personal but I think you can help lead me in the right direction…. Since my ex (5-6 years ago) I have had trouble letting go and having orgasms. Some background is that I used to have no trouble having …
Man Wants More Porn and More Openness
Question My wife and I have different views regarding sexual fantasies. I enjoy a wide range of sexual fantasy (gay, bi, lesbian, groups sex, exhibitionism etc.) and feel it is an important part of my sexual identity and sexual fulfillment. However, my wife does not agree and makes me feel ashamed for being who I …
Why Don’t Men Get Foreplay?
I once had an email from a guy who wrote, “If I hear one more women try to ram foreplay down my throat I am going to explode with anger. I give women oral sex, isn’t that enough?” Ahem. Sometimes in my position it is so very difficult to be a diplomat. At first, I …
Soulful Sex
In a world where hurry up sex better known as clutch and grab sex is usually the main course in people’s sex life and has become like fast food: easy, convenient, initially satisfying, but ultimately bad for you, and having an adverse effect on your sexual health. To think of it another way (you might …
Helping Women to Enjoy Intercourse
The more frequently a woman orgasms, the more inclined she will be to have sex. The longer a woman goes without an orgasm, the longer she does not need to have sex. Men are the opposite—they need a physical release within a time period (i.e. every 24 to 48 hours). Therefore, if a woman is …
