Glow Magazine has me as their sex expert. This month’s reader question is: “My partner wants me to talk dirty but I find it really embarrassing. I’d like to try it for him, but where do I start?” Dr. Trina’s Answer: The rules around dirty talk: Start small and go slow. Talking about sex is …
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How to handle online flirtations
Ann Douglas author of The Mother of All Baby Books and The Mother of All Blogs interviewed me on my book, Till Sex Do Us Part. Here’s one of her questions. Ann Douglas: What kind of effect are online flirtations having on couple relationships? What advice do you offer to couples who want to have …
Sex is so much more than an orgasm!
Here are more questions from my interview with The Stephen and Chris Show. Chris: What’s the difference between single woman sex and married woman sex? My Answer: When you think about how the average person learns to have sex, it was a short time period encompassing a small amount of knowledge. That limited learning is …
Does dreaming count as cheating?
I am the resident sex expert for Glow magazine. This is a a reader question that is fairly common among women. Glow Magazine Reader Question “I dreamt that I cheated on my boyfriend with an ex and I feel awful! What does this mean?” My Response It’s not just men having wet dreams—women have sex …
Who should pay for contraception?
This is the second reader questions I answered for Glow magazine. From January to March I am there official sex expert. “Is there any contraceptive buying etiquette? It just seems unfair that birth control costs so much more than condoms!” I haven’t heard of any birth control etiquette per se, however common sense can direct …
Q & A–Dreaming about having sex with your ex
I’m the featured Sex Expert for Canada’s Glow magazine for, at least, the next four months. Watch for me January through to March. Here’s the first reader question Glow asked me to answer. Glow Reader Question:“I dreamt that I cheated on my boyfriend with an ex and I feel awful! What does this mean?” My …
Do Couples Have Unrealistic Expectations About Sex?
Do couples have unrealistic expectation about sex — and how do we deal with those expectations? We live in a very sexualized society. In the last twenty five years we’ve come to value part of our self worth based on our sexuality and sexiness. With women’s emancipation the ideal that sex was her wifely duty …
How long should good sex last?
How long does good sex really last? When a couple is first together, they have enough dopamine and the body’s own amphetamine-like hormones that they are sufficiently aroused in a nanosecond. So sex can last for three minutes and be mind blowing. Generally though, after two years, it takes a woman a minimum fifteen minutes …
Kissing keeps sex fresh and fun
Does kissing do more than simply lead to sex? One couple I know has a “10 second” kiss rule. That is when things are getting hectic with kids, career, life, one would say, “ten second kiss”. They would have to drop everything and kiss each other for, well, ten seconds. It was their way of …
How Life Changes Affect Your Sex Life
I recently did an interview with Self magazine’s Feature Editor, Caroline Schaefer. Great interview with some thought provoking questions. Here’s what Caroline and I talked about. Self Magazine The subject is how life changes affect your sex life. Everything from little switches (hair color, bikini wax) to life shifts (new baby, moving to a new …
