No doubt about it. Sex is a hot-button topic for many couples. When I ask couples “Is all the fighting really worth it?”, they immediately answer with, “Of course not!” Yet these same people keep going round the same frustration circles. What started this musing? I recently visited my financial advisor to discuss year end taxes. …
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Being a Parent and Still Having Sex–Part #6 (ParentsConnect.com)
Question My husband says he doesn’t want to have any more kids, but refuses to have a vasectomy. I’ve told him it’s only fair since I had to go through childbirth. What can I do to convince him? Dr. Trina’s Response: Hmmmm. Giving guilt (i.e. you suffered to have your children) that will inevitably lead …
Frustrated Male Wants More Sex
Question Last January, my wife and I were at a nice restaurant having dinner, (date night). I was, as usual, making my latest pitch for something new we should be trying to spice up our sex lives. Not only did she say no, but she told me that our sex life was fine, and that …
Marital Sexual Satisfaction–Part #3 (Hitched on-line magazine)
Question Why, mainly in males, is the duration of marriage a factor with sexual inactivity? Dr. Trina’s Response: (1) Sex for men is one of the few ways they can show emotion. It is their emotional connection to their partner-most people believe it is the woman. When the sex stops, so does his main outlet …
Man Wants More Porn and More Openness
Question My wife and I have different views regarding sexual fantasies. I enjoy a wide range of sexual fantasy (gay, bi, lesbian, groups sex, exhibitionism etc.) and feel it is an important part of my sexual identity and sexual fulfillment. However, my wife does not agree and makes me feel ashamed for being who I …
Why Don’t Men Get Foreplay?
I once had an email from a guy who wrote, “If I hear one more women try to ram foreplay down my throat I am going to explode with anger. I give women oral sex, isn’t that enough?” Ahem. Sometimes in my position it is so very difficult to be a diplomat. At first, I …
Q & A From Young Man About His Penis, Hard-ons and Masturbation
Question #1 I have a 5 inch penis when erected, it is about 2 inches thick too, is that a good size? Dr. Trina’s Response: Penis size matters for some women yet for most women it is not an issue. I use the metaphor that breast size matters for some men, but for most men …
