Why is it that once a woman bears another man’s child she loses her ‘Erotic Capital’? And is it the reason why women don’t earn as much once they become moms?
Here’s my chicken and egg question: which came first, men seeing moms as asexual; or moms putting themselves in that asexual role. Which makes me wonder: Is it simply the change in confidence or a lack of kids that makes the difference?
Category Archive
for: ‘Parenting & Sexuality’
Why Moms Have No Erotic Capital
How Young is Too Young for Sex Ed?
The Ontario provincial government majorly fumbled when they rolled out the new sex education curriculum and then promptly withdrew it as a result of mass complaints. There was no shortage of rants and raves along with media-fed misinformation about the curriculum. Here is a general overview of the proposed changes.
Casual sex is now the norm
The average age of intercourse is 17 in Canada. The average age at marriage is 28 for females and 30 for men (in Canada). So there around 10 years of ‘single’ time for most young adults. Should you accept a life of celibacy other than your own self-pleasuring? Hell no.
Dr. Trina on The Balancing Act
Watch Lifetime Network this Friday, May 13 from 7:00 to 8:00. Dr. Trina will appear on The Balancing Act to chat about how to sex up your sex life with the help of We-Vibe II.
Sex Survey Results–YummyMummyClub. ca
YummyMummyClub.ca polled hundreds of busy, multi-tasking moms and dads across the country about their sex lives after kids leaving nary a stone, or private moment, unturned.
HPV Shot: Promoting Protection or Promiscuity?
Before this, she felt peer pressure from her mommy group not to give her daughter the HPV shot. There was an undercurrent, a silent social more that by getting the shot it would promote her daughter to go out and have sex.
Why is his vasectomy my responsibility?
As I limped ‘blue balled’ to read a book in bed, I said to my husband in frustration, “You know if you were fixed, we could be having sex right now.” Equally as frustrated he replied, “What’s wrong with using a condom?” “I’m ovulating today and I don’t want to take any chances. The condom could break.”
Sex talk at a mom’s book club
I was invited to a mom’s book club who were (bless them) reviewing my book, Till Sex Do Us Part: Make Your Married Sex Irresistible. It was a range of moms who had babies up to 20 year-old kids.
Inevitably the conversation went to the girl’s sexuality.
Frozen Muffin Moments and Sex
The ‘frozen muffin incident’ lasted all of thirty seconds. Yet it’s one of those minor things that can have a major impact on a relationship…and sex. And so, it seems, the quality of our sex lives hangs in the balance of these ordinary life moments that have little to nothing to do with sex.
Young women are having sex…it’s true!
Once again, it had nothing to do with male sexuality—can’t figure out for the life of me why it’s always gal’s sexuality that’s under scrutiny. Maybe because people keep that old tired, “men can have lots of sex and women can’t…because she’ll get pregnant and get labeled a ‘whore’” dogma subconsciously in their heads.
