It depends on the age of the child. 
A mother with a baby under a year will be lucky to be willing/ wanting to have sex once per month…that is AFTER the two to six month required abstinence from the time of giving birth.  Mom’s who are breast feeding produce minute quantities of estrogen plus she has oxytocin [...]

Question
My husband says he doesn’t want to have any more kids, but refuses to have a vasectomy. I’ve told him it’s only fair since I had to go through childbirth. What can I do to convince him?
 Dr. Trina’s Response:
Hmmmm. Giving guilt (i.e. you suffered to have your children) that will inevitably lead into power struggles…not [...]

Question 
I’ve been divorced a year, but have to admit there’s still a powerful sexual connection with my ex and sometimes I want to pick up the phone and suggest a casual hook-up. Is it O.K. to have sex with an ex?
Dr. Trina’s Response
First know you are not some freak’oid because you want to have sex with [...]

Question 
I have a huge crush on George Clooney and like to daydream about having sex with him even though I am very happily married. Is this normal?
Dr. Trina’s Response: 
George Clooney…yum. Good choice
Fantasy is a healthy part of any relationship. It allows you to be, do, and have sexual encounters in your regular life that are not [...]

Question 
I love co-sleeping with our toddler, but my mate finds it’s a real turn-off romantically to share a bed. Is there any way to compromise?
Dr. Trina’s Response: 
There’s always a way to compromise. Two things you can do in your situation:
(1) Negotiate. A key point in negotiation is what you are will to negotiate and what you [...]

Question 
Stress is ruining my sex life. I can’t relax enough - even for a quickie- to enjoy it. I just keep thinking about everything on my to-do list. My mate understands, but is worried I’m too stressed out. What should I do?
Dr. Trina’s Response: 
The obvious question you need to ask yourself is, “Is it really [...]

Question 
My mate wants sex almost every night, but I’m too tired from work, cooking, dealing with the kids etc. What can I do? 
Dr. Trina’s Reponse:
Great question. Most women don’t realize that when they unconsciously harbor such negative feelings, it fundamentally affects their sex lives.
As such here is the easy-and yet tremendously hard-solution. Communication. You need [...]

Question
Last January, my wife and I were at a nice restaurant having dinner, (date night). I was, as usual, making my latest pitch for something new we should be trying to spice up our sex lives. Not only did she say no, but she told me that our sex life was fine, and that we [...]

Question
Why, mainly in males, is the duration of marriage a factor with sexual inactivity?
Dr. Trina’s Response:
(1) Sex for men is one of the few ways they can show emotion. It is their emotional connection to their partner-most people believe it is the woman.
When the sex stops, so does his main outlet to have an [...]

Question
If a couple is having some kind of discourse within their relationship do to reasons other than intercourse, what are some ways a couple can find marital satisfaction outside of sex? 
Dr.Trina’s Response: 
Long term couples tend to lose: 
(1) Non-sexual touch which doesn’t include hugging, cuddling—it’s more the pragmatic hand-holding, bum squeezing, shoulder rubbing type of touch. 
(2) [...]