Lou Paget is a certified AASECT* sex educator and grassroots researcher whose quest for accurate, practical information for herself has created a highly successful international seminar and product company with a focus on lifestyle and cultural trends that impact our sexuality, health, and relationships. Find out more about Lou. Follow on Twitter and Facebook
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I've been married for almost 14 years to my second husband. I've always felt that he has a "secret life" and that he is hiding something from me. I've felt sexually deprived for over ten years. I found out that he visits prostitutes and recently found print outs of trans sexuals.
I have been having incredible dreams about a woman I work with. I've never done anything with a female but I do think she is hot and actually have considered asking her out for drinks after work. Does it mean I am a lesbian?
My new boyfriend still has all these pictures of his old girlfriend on the walls and constantly tells me 'how she never did things I do. He is a really sweet guy but I feel am getting mixed messages from him.
My boyfriend takes forever to come when I am giving him oral sex. I really like this man but I do not feel like I can please him. Any suggestions?
Some of my orgasms feel very different from others. I usually get a great deal of enjoyment when he goes down on me and that is my quickest way to come, but if I do come when we are doing things doggy style, my orgasm feels even more so. Is this normal and is there a reason for this?
All of my friends describe an orgasm as a time when you scream with delight and just feel altogether good and excited. I think that I have had an orgasm, but if it is like that I am unsure. Please describe what an orgasm is supposed to feel like.
My boyfriend and I have been together for three years. Over the last two weeks he hasn't wanted to have sex with me and I'm starting to think its me. I've tried making the moves but he just rolls over or ignores me.
Some people find sharing sexual fantasies with their partner embarrassing. Here's excellent sex advice on how you can share that kinky sexy side with them.
Is it 'normal' for a woman to have a clitoral orgasm only when her when her legs are together, lying on her back. Also here is what women need to achieve orgasm, as well what percentage of women ejaculate.
Having sex in water is a great way to add spice to your sex life. The key to fantastic water sex is to make sure you've got enough lubrication. Here is how to have sex at the beach, in a pool or shower.
I am a woman who is very large vaginally. My husband is not small, but certainly not as large as I need and like. He enjoys and gets very excited pleasuring me with very large "toys" but I would like him to feel more when he is inside me himself. Any suggestions?
A woman asks whether it's okay to masturbate during her pregnancy. As well, she wants to know if it's safe to orgasm during her pregnancy.
I keep hearing about men who have these or do they? What is the real scoop here? The short answer is: yes. Find out how you can be multi-orgasmic.
The couples who have the lust and passion continue pay attention to it. It is a priority. Here are eleven proven ideas that will help long term couples keep it passionate in the bedroom.