I have been having incredible dreams about a woman I work with. I've never done anything with a female but I do think she is hot and actually have considered asking her out for drinks after work. Does it mean I am a lesbian?
Monogamy: the life-long sexual exclusivity, with the expectation of continued, enjoyable sexual intimacy through middle- and old-age-is a relatively recent, very radical social experiment. Oddly enough, it's still the gold standard of sexual relating even though it's actually pretty unusual-and no one seems to have a dependable formula for how to create and enjoy it.