Orgasm can help heal chronic pain

Sex is usually one of the first things to get thrown out with the bath water when we aren’t feeling well. But, surprise! There are actually healing qualities to sex that we may want to utilize in our pain management.

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Give the guy a hand...job

Male masturbation creams are very slick and are designed to enhance sensation and heighten a guy’s pleasure while he’s masturbating. Masturbation creams also make a wonderful lube to use during hand jobs.

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Is he jackin' off too much?

My girlfriend doesn’t like it when I masturbate. She asked me how often and I said likely daily. She said this was too much, but when I asked her if us having sex everyday would be considered too much, she said no. So why would doing one everyday be more acceptable than the other?

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Can you have sex during her period?

There isn’t any physiological reason why a couple shouldn’t have sex during a woman’s period. All aspects of her sexual response are the same. In fact, couples can use a vibrator or have oral sex, if they choose.

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Men Find Your A-spot

There are a number of amazing male toys on the market including male masturbation devices and cockrings, however, in this expose we will focus on vibrating prostate gland toys for the guys.

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Man can't maintain erection during oral sex

The last time I was getting oral sex from my partner I lost my erection. To make matters worse, this happens quite often. Why does this happen to me and what can I do to stop it from happening in the future?

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Is Your Child Sexually Savvy?

Study after study has proven that a child who is educated and comfortable with their body and their sexuality will abstain from inappropriate sexual acts. I call it being sexually self-confident. As well, I believe it is just plain smart to have kids well versed in sexuality before they go off into their MTV world.

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Could you draw your vulva?

Women in general have a pretty twisted sense of body image. Those insecurities are personified when it comes to their vulvas. Your vulva is not some mystical wonderland you get to visit only while having sex. Your vulva is a part of your anatomy. You need to learn to treat it with respect and love.

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How Much Sex is Normal?

There is no average for how many times a couple makes love in a week. End of story. Of the billions of people on this planet, you have a unique libido. Your life experience and stage of life create the ebb and flow of your sexuality.

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Asking for what you want in bed

People feel guilty about asking for what they want in bed. Instead of being really clear about what they want and seeing whether their partner is up for it or not, they don’t ask at all or only ask for a small percentage of what they need, feeling that everything in the bedroom needs to be tit for tat.

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911: An Erotic Tale

Part I of 911. Like most people who lived in this area of town, Claire was no prude. Waiting until a group of pedestrians went by and making sure at least a couple of them were looking up at her, she suddenly pulled her blouse over her head. She wasn’t wearing a bra, having ditched that as soon as she’d gotten home from work, and she sighed as her 36C breasts were released.

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What You Can Do For Low Testosterone

Many men (and women) have low testosterone for many different reasons, and Danielle and Celeste give some alarming facts in the big “T” conundrum. They also give you five real ways to naturally boost your free testosterone. Here’s our top five list of things to do to naturally boost testosterone.

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The Many Benefits to Casual Sex

Sex without commitment can improve your life, or so says Stanley Siegel who believes casual sex gets a bad rap. The truth is, long-term relationships or marriage do not guarantee a satisfying emotional life or sexual intimacy. By openly exploring our fantasies and true desires with different partners in a way that may not possible in a committed relationship, we can transcend our inhibitions.

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Sexually Adventurous Much More Sexually Satisfied

New research by Kristen Mark found that sexually adventurous behaviors were associated with higher relationship and sexual satisfaction levels in the participants’ current relationships. Find out what these sexually adventurous behaviors are…

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Why Do Men Like Breasts?

There are plenty of reasons guys like breasts. Nipples are directly connected to a woman’s genital nervous system. In fact, women can have breast orgasms. In one study of 213 women, 29% had experienced boob bliss at one time or another.

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It's Called a Vulva

The Va-jay-jay. The Vagina. The Vadge (thanks, Superbad). All words to describe a body part with an actual name of vulva. Think about it, we don’t teach girls about their bodies. What boy doesn’t know that his penis is called a penis? How many of us use slang to label our daughters’ vulva or even worse refer vaguely to ‘down there?’

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Top five ways women can desire sex

There are many ways to overcome a low sexual desire and I’ve listed the top five below. When going into the sexual experience—it’s all about you, and your needs, wants and desires do matter and will be attended to.

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The Prostate Debate

Do homeopathic remedies have a legitimate place in promoting male health? Dr. Dudley Danoff, M.D. weighs in on whether Bayer HealthCare claims that selenium in its One A Day vitamins may reduce men’s risk of prostate cancer.

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Are You a Madonna or Whore?

Social messages shape and play a role in your sexuality, desire and turn on. How you feel about yourself as a sexual person has a huge impact on your libido and, unfortunately, in our culture and many others, women’s sexuality is repressed and stigmatized.

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Curing Bedroom Boredom

According to Denise Charles, where sex is concerned there is always the element of choice. She explains that there are a number of ways individuals and couples can and do choose to deal with the issue of bedroom boredom.

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Is Sex a No-Win for Men?

The old saying, “Happy wife, happy life” started me thinking about men and their sexual plight. After his teenage years where his guys-gone-wild antics are both expected and praised, the average guy in a long term relationship gets the crummy end of the sex stick.

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Late at the Office: An Erotic Tale

Part 2. Marie noticed a funny look, a naughty grin, creeping onto Alicia’s face. “What are you thinking?” she asked. “You aren’t really going to…” “Well, I was thinking…No, no, never mind,” Alicia said quickly, turning back to her desk.

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Women's Sexual Peak

Is it true that women reach their sexual peak in their 30s? No, there isn’t a decade when a woman reaches her sexual peak. Today women have multiple partners before marriage and are a lot more sexually confident.

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911: An Erotic Tale

Part 4 of 911 Anthony smiled, then lowered his lips between Benson’s legs as Claire held Benson’s pussy lips open. As she assisted her husband in pleasing Benson, Claire moved back and forth against Renner’s partially sagging cock. “We’re not finished yet, Officer Renner.”

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Women's Magic Sex Pill

When couples come to me looking for a ‘magic pill’—what the pharmaceutical companies have promised as the hassle free way to fix their sexual woes—I patiently explain that it is just a pipe dream.

Even still, millions of women spend billions of dollars yearly on different products and services hoping to give their libido a kick start. And believe me, there’s a lot of pretender remedies willing to take your money.

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Are You Secretly Masturbating?

Why is talking about masturbating such a taboo topic? Couples who decide to be in an exclusive, long-term relationship open up and share their finances, childhood hurts and future dreams but not their solitary self-pleasuring. It is almost as if many couples hit an intimacy and vulnerability wall.

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